Who I am

I didn’t always know I would end up here—guiding others on the path of self-discovery. In fact, my journey began like most: shaped by my upbringing, conditioned by beliefs I didn’t choose, and moving through life on a path I thought I was supposed to follow.

I was raised in a conservative Christian household, surrounded by certainty—until I began to question it. A single, profound question shook the foundation of my beliefs and led me to seek truth beyond what I had been given. At the same time, I transformed physically, losing over 100 pounds and proving to myself that change was possible. But personal evolution doesn’t stop at the physical—it goes much deeper.

Then, life forced me to awaken in ways I never expected. I lost my mother to cancer. My father revealed his true identity after years of living in a way that wasn’t fully his own. My sense of stability unraveled, and I realized that everything I thought was certain could change in an instant. This was my first true initiation into self-redefinition.

I pursued a career as an automotive technician, graduated early, and secured my dream position. By all external measures, I was successful. But internally, something felt misaligned. I was engaged multiple times, searching for something deeper in relationships, yet unable to see what was really driving my patterns. Lust, avoidance, and distraction kept me from facing the parts of myself that needed healing. Through heartbreak, betrayal (both received and inflicted), and repeated cycles of seeking fulfillment outside of myself, I eventually realized the only way forward was inward.

Then came the dark night of my soul—a marriage that shattered every illusion I had left about myself. The relationship challenged my sense of worth, forcing me to face my deepest fears, my unresolved wounds, and the ways I had been living on autopilot. But this wasn’t destruction for the sake of suffering—it was a call to transformation. Through this experience, I redefined my relationship with myself, my spirituality, and my purpose.

I asked the universe for a life partner and received an experience that taught me to become my own foundation first. I became a father, and through my son, I learned what it means to love on a level beyond ego—beyond expectation.

Through my struggles, my failures, my awakenings, and my healing, I have come to understand the path of transformation firsthand. I know what it means to question everything, to feel like life is unraveling, and to search for something deeper when the old way of being no longer fits. That’s why I do this work—to guide others through their own unfolding, helping them step fully into the truth of who they are.

Lately, something feels… off.

The things that once excited you don’t feel the same anymore. Your routine, your relationships, even the way you’ve always thought about life—it’s all starting to feel a little less real, a little less satisfying. You can’t quite put your finger on it, but there’s a growing sense that there’s something deeper to life than what you’ve been familiar with.

Maybe you’re starting to question things you never thought to question before.
Maybe certain friendships don’t feel as aligned as they once did.
Maybe you feel like you’re changing, but the world around you is staying the same.

And with that shift, a part of you wonders:
"What’s happening to me? Am I just overthinking this? Will people think I’m crazy if I start looking for answers?"

If this resonates, you’re not alone. This is the beginning of self-discovery.

It’s not about throwing away everything you’ve known—it’s about realizing that you get to choose what still fits and what no longer serves you. It’s about uncovering the deeper truth of who you are beneath the habits, beliefs, and expectations that have shaped you.

I work with people who are in this space—people who are waking up to the fact that something needs to change, but they’re not quite sure where to start. Whether you’re just beginning this process or have been on this path for some time, my role is to help you navigate the unknown, find clarity in your transformation, and step into the life you are truly meant to live.

I don’t just understand transformation—I’ve lived it.

I know what it’s like to feel lost in the search for meaning. I’ve faced the pain of letting go of old identities, relationships, and beliefs that no longer served me. I know the uncertainty of awakening, when the world around you seems unchanged, but something deep inside of you is shifting beyond recognition. And I also know what it takes to move through it, integrate the lessons, and emerge with clarity and purpose.

My coaching isn’t about offering quick fixes or surface-level solutions. It’s about deep, lasting transformation—the kind that requires courage, introspection, and a willingness to step beyond what is familiar.

I am here to be the mirror that reflects back what you cannot yet see. To ask the questions that lead you into your own wisdom. To help you move through the blind spots that keep you stuck, so you can reclaim the fullness of who you are.

This is your journey—but you don’t have to navigate it alone. If you’re ready to step into your truth, I am here to guide you through it.